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So it's Wednesday!

Why is it that every time there is a holiday or it's a four day work week for some reason...the week takes 1500 times longer than a normal week??? It has been a crazy 2 days, but the week is almost over and then we can begin our whirlwind of no free weekends till March (YAY)!!! Things to do...makes me HAPPY!

So tomorrow is 12 weeks :) I am still struggling a little bit talking about it..because there is still a little fear there that something could happen...I wish my mind would settle and the thoughts would go away, but I guess everything will calm when the baby is here....although that seems like a LONG ways a way right now! So I am pondering a 5k this weekend...thoughts on this please!!!! I have been running (jogging) a little and I know that IF I decide to this that I will probably be last because I know that I don't want to push myself to the limit. I feel good when I am running, I just haven't gotten to 3 miles, so I wonder how well I would do. This is the run that I placed in last year at the beach, so I know the course, its flat and easy....I guess I just need to see how I feel.
 
We are going to the beach this weekend (thankfully)...need a little break from home and some shopping time with mom!!!! Hope you have lots of fun plans for the weekend!!!! Enjoy the rest of your week and thanks for reading my thoughts!! Love and Hugs :) Alysha

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